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Plan your retreat or meeting at Toccoa House Properties.

This highly sought-after wedding venue comes with a host of features and amenities, including:

  • Luxury Cabins and Lodging for 50 Guests
  • Onsite Wedding Chapel
  • Riverfront Ceremony Spaces
  • Covered Outdoor and Indoor Reception Areas
  • Affordable Wedding Packages
  • Unbelievable Photo-Op Spots
  • Direct Access to the Toccoa River
  • Walking Trails
  • Heated Swimming Pool & Hot Tubs
  • Much More

If you've been searching for a wedding venue that epitomizes beauty, relaxation, comfort, and convenience, look no further than Toccoa House Properties.

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The Toccoa House Properties Difference

As a wedding venue in Blue Ridge for couples in Macon-Bibb County, GA, Toccoa House Properties is simply magical, where the beauty of the Blue Ridge Mountains meets the country-chic vibes of modern Appalachia. It has a distinctly custom-built feel, and for good reason. Nearly every inch of the property - from the luxurious cabins within walking distance of one another to the heated pool and more - was purpose-built for exceptional events, like weddings in Blue Ridge.

It all started when Oregonian Greg Spencer initially discovered the Blue Ridge area on a backpacking trip to the Cohutta Wilderness in the 1980s. A short time later, enamored of the area, Greg embarked on a land-purchasing mission that led him to 17 acres of undeveloped acreage. Amazed by the beauty of the Toccoa River and the inspiring views of the surrounding mountains, Greg wasted no time in securing what is now known as Toccoa House Properties.

Today, Toccoa House Properties exists as a one-of-a-kind, highly sought-after event space and wedding venue. As a family-owned and operated business, we take pride in putting on fairytale weddings for you and your guests. In fact, our unique location and commitment to personalized wedding services are what separate us from other wedding venues in North Georgia.

Simply put, we aren't afraid to go "above and beyond" for wedding clients. If you need assistance or advice, you can rest easy knowing that our team will answer your calls - not an automated answering machine or third-party service.

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Why Choose Toccoa House Properties as a Wedding Venue in Blue Ridge for Couples in Macon-Bibb County, GA?

Here at Toccoa House Properties, we do things a little differently than other wedding venues in North Georgia. Unlike most, we own the land that so many brides and grooms have used for their destination weddings. We designed and built each of the luxury cabins you'll find onsite, where you and your wedding party can rest, relax, and reminisce. Plus, we personally manage the day-to-day needs of our wedding clients.

On your big day, our ultimate goal is to exceed your expectations through personalized service, outstanding amenities, and the peace of mind knowing that your needs are our priority. When your wedding takes place at Toccoa House Properties, you're the apple of our eye, no questions asked.

Here are just a few of the most popular reasons why guests choose Toccoa House Properties as their wedding venue in Georgia, along with some helpful tips from our seasoned wedding venue staff:

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Venue Size and Versatility

When it comes to venue size and versatility, few wedding locations can match Toccoa House Properties. That's because we provide an alluring mix of outdoor and indoor ceremony and reception options spread across 17+ acres of beauty. Whether you want to recite your vows in the tranquility of our chapel or say "I Do" with golden hour river views, we can accommodate you. With more than 1,000 feet of Toccoa River frontage, lush meadows, rustic walking trails, and more, having a storybook wedding in the mountains is easy, like Sunday morning.

Toccoa House Properties Pro Tip:

Keep in mind that this is your big day. You shouldn't feel obligated to invite teammates from your high school soccer team. Your wedding venue should be one that can accommodate those closest to you. Toccoa House Properties is equipped for weddings of various sizes and themes. Whether you want a quaint wedding with only your best friends or a larger ceremony, we have the right amount of room to make you comfortable.

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Location and Onsite Lodging

On your special day, chances are family and friends will be traveling to celebrate with you. These folks will need lodging both during and after your wedding. And if we're being honest, ease of accessibility is an important factor when choosing a wedding venue in Blue Ridge for couples in Macon-Bibb County, GA. With six custom-built cabins, all within walking distance of one another, getting a good night's rest is easy when your wedding party stays at Toccoa House Properties. Need an offsite hotel or vacation rental? Blue Ridge, GA, is known for its charming and unique lodging options, many of which are only a few miles from our wedding space.

Toccoa House Properties Pro Tip:

When you contact our wedding coordinator to schedule a tour, make sure to ask about the fun and exciting cabin amenities we have. From pool tables to hot tubs and more, your wedding will be more than just memorable: it'll be downright fun!

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Wedding Venue Staff and Assistance

Toccoa House Properties takes pride in having one of the friendliest and most accessible teams in the industry. We assign a dedicated point of contact who can assist you with any queries regarding timelines, preferred vendors, or any other aspect of your wedding. Our goal is for you to feel fully informed and confident when you visit our Blue Ridge wedding venue for the first time so you can make an educated purchasing decision.

Our team would be happy to discuss:

  • Ceremony Ideas
  • Reception Specifics
  • Decorating and Theme Possibilities
  • Catering Needs
  • DJ and Entertainment Options
  • Photo and Video Opportunities
  • Wedding Venue Amenities
  • Bridal Party Requests
  • Groomsman Needs
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Breathtaking Photo Opportunities

When you and your spouse celebrate your anniversary a decade from now, you will look back at your wedding photos and reminisce about the wonderful moments you shared at Toccoa House Properties. We understand the importance of preserving these memories, and as such, work closely with you and your photographer to suggest unique and beautiful photo locations on our grounds. From waterfront walks along the Toccoa River to poses in front of our lovely pond, there is no shortage of photo-op locations for your photographer to choose from.

Need a little help choosing a local photographer for your wedding? As a popular wedding destination, we have had the pleasure of working with many talented photographers over the years. Through our experience, we have curated a list of preferred photographers who are familiar with our venue and have the skills to capture your special day beautifully.

We encourage you to check us out on Instagram and Facebook to see the scope of our wedding venue and gain inspiration from other happy couples.

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Decor

When it comes to the decor for your wedding, it's likely that you have some ideas already in mind. We're thrilled when our brides and grooms have a vision in mind because we take joy in bringing that vision to life. At Toccoa House Properties, we're happy to assist you and your decorator accent, fit, and accommodate your dream wedding. Looking for some artificial floral arrangements? Need a specific type of centerpiece? Contact our office today to learn more about how we can help.

Toccoa House Properties Pro Tip:

If you'd like to supply your own greenery, florals, lighting, and more, we suggest that you discuss your ideas with us when you tour our wedding venue. That way, we can get a head start on accommodating your needs.

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Affordable Wedding Packages

When asked to give feedback, guests cite our variety package options as a big reason for choosing our wedding venue in Blue Ridge for couples in Macon-Bibb County, GA. We know that all couples will have different needs and budgets. That's why we offer a range of choices, from all-inclusive packages with lodging for 50 guests and complete access to Toccoa House Properties to Micro Packages with Vegas-inspired ceremonies that last an hour.

Some of our most popular packages include the following:

  • All Inclusive Wedding Packages
  • Destination Wedding Packages
  • Micro Wedding Packages
  • Toccoa House Weddings with Choice of Ceremony and Reception Space
  • Toccoa House Chapel Weddings with Use of Chapel and Surrounding Areas
  • Much More

Need more info about pricing, wedding planning, and day-of coordination? Our wedding coordinator is here to help! Contact our office for more information.

A Step-by-Step Guide for Choosing Your Wedding Venue in Blue Ridge for Couples in Macon-Bibb County, GA

While we would be honored if you chose Toccoa House Properties as your wedding venue in Blue Ridge, we must admit that we're true romantics at heart. At the end of the day, we want your wedding to be the very best that it can be - which is why we're happy to provide some time-tested tips for selecting a location for your wedding.

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Choose Your Style of Wedding

When selecting a venue for your wedding, it's important to take into account the overall look and atmosphere you wish to achieve. Your chosen wedding style will determine which venues are most suitable for you and your partner.

Some popular styles to consider may include:

  • Traditional
  • Whimsical
  • Romantic
  • Rustic
  • Fantasy
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Pick a Wedding Date and List of Wedding Venue Choices

What time of the year do you want to get married? Once you have an idea of a season, like fall or spring, come up with a list of potential of wedding venues in Blue Ridge, GA, like Toccoa House Properties.

Keep in mind the following:

  • Guest Count
  • Wedding Budget
  • Wedding Style
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Schedule a Tour

One of the most important steps involved in choosing a wedding venue is to tour the space. Don't be afraid to ask pertinent questions. If the venue manager seems like they have better things to do than answer your questions, look elsewhere.

Make sure you take into account:

  • Size of Wedding Venue
  • Ambiance of Wedding Venue
  • Layout of Wedding Venue
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Consider Services and Amenities

Once you narrow down your wedding venue choices, consider the amenities and services the venue offers. Be sure to weigh what they offer against your needs and budget to further narrow down your choices.

Consider services and amenities such as:

  • Lodging
  • Ceremony and Reception Space
  • Seating
  • Day-Of Coordinator
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Determine the Location of Your Wedding Venue

If you think your guests will hate a particular wedding venue location, why consider it in the first place? Choosing a destination - like Toccoa House Properties - that is within a short driving distance of grocery stores and restaurants is almost always better than a hard-to-access venue.

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Check Out Wedding Venue Reviews

Do yourself a favor and check out the wedding venue's Google reviews and reviews on other platforms. You can also ask for opinions from people you trust, like friends and family members. Don't be afraid to reach out directly to people who have used the wedding venue previously. A wedding venue in Blue Ridge for couples in Macon-Bibb County, GA, should be excited to show you their online reviews. If you notice a disparaging review, try asking the owner of the wedding venue to explain their side of the story before writing them off completely.

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Compare Wedding Venues and Choose

Try coming up with a list of pros and cons of each wedding venue that you're considering. Doing so can help you whittle your list down to one or two choices. Remember to trust your gut throughout this process. If you've come down to two choices, and something about one of the venues rubbed you the wrong way, it's probably for a reason.

Features to consider when choosing your wedding venue may include:

  • Location
  • Amenities
  • Price
  • Reviews
  • Tour
  • Lodging
  • Accessibility
  • Attractiveness of Wedding Venue
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Confirm and Plan

Once you've settled on a wedding venue, it's time to book! As most wedding venues will tell you, try booking your venue at least a year before your wedding is set to take place. Doing so will give you plenty of time to plan. If you need help preparing, don't be afraid to work with a professional wedding planner to make your life easier.

Some items to plan for may include:

  • DJs or Entertainment
  • Caterers
  • Decorations
  • Attractions
  • Bridal Showers
  • Bachelor Parties
  • Post-Wedding Parties
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The Premier Wedding Venue in Blue Ridge, GA

When it comes to tying the knot with your soon-to-be spouse, there's a lot on your plate to consider. Choosing the right wedding space can mean the difference between the wedding of your dreams and an experience you'd like to forget. With six fully-furnished cabins, 17 acres of natural beauty, an array of outdoor activities, a quarter mile of Toccoa River frontage, and much more, there's no better option than our wedding venue in Blue Ridge for couples in Macon-Bibb County, GA- Toccoa House Properties.

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Pi day is here. Celebrate by grabbing a slice of pie at these 8 yummy Macon eateries

Whatever way you slice it, pie is just too good to pass up.And with National Pi Day on Thursday, we couldn’t miss the chance to highlight some of Macon’s best places to get your fix.Sure, Pi Day is technically about math, but we promise not to count how many pieces you enjoy.Where: 3001 Vineville Ave.Pies on the menu: pecan pie cheesecake, orange dreamsicle, chocolate cheesecakeYelp rating: 4.8/5 stars...

Whatever way you slice it, pie is just too good to pass up.

And with National Pi Day on Thursday, we couldn’t miss the chance to highlight some of Macon’s best places to get your fix.

Sure, Pi Day is technically about math, but we promise not to count how many pieces you enjoy.

Where: 3001 Vineville Ave.

Pies on the menu: pecan pie cheesecake, orange dreamsicle, chocolate cheesecake

Yelp rating: 4.8/5 stars

Yelp review: “The Pecan Pie cheesecake is absolutely amazingly delicious! The cheesecake itself is creamy and light. The pecan pie topping is just perfect and the buttery crust pulls it together perfectly,” said Tara.

Where: 1191 Oglethorpe Street

Pies on the menu: sweet potato pie, pecan pie

Yelp rating: 4.5/5 stars

Yelp review: “Unbelievably delicious. The Pecan Pie is the best...in the world,” said Tony P.

Where: 807 Forsyth Street

Pies on the menu: sweet potato pie

Yelp rating: 3.8/5 stars

Yelp review: “This place was everything I had hoped it would be and more. The food, service and ‘feel’ were perfect,” said Bill I.

Where: 4436 Forsyth Road

Pies on the menu: coconut pie, chocolate pie

Yelp rating: 4.4/5 stars

Yelp review: “The coconut pie was great. Good texture and light crust,” said Jay S.

Where: 543 Cherry Street

Pies on the menu: cracked pie, lemon buttermilk pie

Yelp rating: 4.6/5 stars

Yelp review: “Fantastic restaurant and a gem in Macon! Don’t leave without trying a cheese board and the cracked pie! Fantastic,” said Courtney M.

Where: 512 Poplar Street

Pies on the menu: lemon icebox pie,

Yelp rating: 4.2/5 stars

Yelp review: “The Lemon Icebox pie was incredible. If you find yourself in the area I can’t recommend this enough,” said Allison H.

Where: 450-B Third Street

Pies on the menu: nutter butter pie

Yelp rating: 4.4/5 stars

Yelp review: “The nutter butter pie was amazing and huge,” said Kyle L.

Where: 543 Cherry Street

Pies on the menu: derby pie, caramel apple pie or try the moon pie milkshake

Yelp rating: 4.2/5 stars

Yelp review: “Fabulous! Everything we ate was delicious, fresh, homemade,” said Carey W.

What’s your go-to spot for pie? Comment below or let me know at cmadden@mcclatchy.com

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March 04, 2024 4:36 PM

Major spill at a Macon wastewater plant feeds into local river. Has it had any impacts?

(Reality Check is a Telegraph series holding those in power to account and shining a light on their decisions. Have a suggestion for a future story? Email mynews@macon.com.)A “major spill” caused fluids from a Macon wastewater treatment plant to flow into the Ocmulgee River last week, but the Macon Water Authority says there are no early signs of the river being impacted.The spill happened at the Rocky Creek Water Reclamation Facility locat...

(Reality Check is a Telegraph series holding those in power to account and shining a light on their decisions. Have a suggestion for a future story? Email mynews@macon.com.)

A “major spill” caused fluids from a Macon wastewater treatment plant to flow into the Ocmulgee River last week, but the Macon Water Authority says there are no early signs of the river being impacted.

The spill happened at the Rocky Creek Water Reclamation Facility located at 4705 Mead Road, and it’s the fourth major spill at Macon’s facilities in the last year. Heavy rain caused extra water flow in the area and contributed to the spill, the water authority said. While officials are taking steps to address the problem, they’re facing obstacles.

“We have very limited options as the plant is at capacity, and strong rain events can rapidly increase the flow far above what the plant was designed and constructed to handle,” said Kate Kubesheski, director of wastewater operations who oversees the day-to-day operations of both water reclamation facilities in Macon.

The water authority reported the spill to the Georgia Department of Natural Environmental Protection Division. The water authority is required to report the incident if the discharge into the body of water exceeds 67.5 milligrams per liter of “total suspended solids” in a day. Total suspended solids are a measurement of the solids within a water or wastewater sample.

This spill eclipsed that barometer on consecutive days, according to the Macon Water Authority: on March 6 the measure was 108 mg/L and on March 7 it was 78 mg/L.

Kubesheski said when there are too many solids on the plant, and the area gets heavy rain, there’s increased water flow that pushes the solids out into the river “before they are sufficiently treated.”

The solids in the plant are a mix of waste entering the plant and microbes the plant uses to break down the waste in basins. The waste is a mix of municipal and industrial waste, though most of it is industrial.

Kubesheski said staff have been working to get the aerators back on, which the plant uses to provide oxygen to the microbes.

“We shut down some of our equipment to cause less mixing in the basins to try and let the solids settle in the hopes that the excess flow will not be able to carry them to the effluent,” she said. “We’re also removing as many solids as we can without disrupting the treatment process to reduce the overall inventory.”

A Macon Water Authority report states the facility is making continual adjustments to the aeration basins and clarifiers, when possible, to try to manage the solids onsite without more of it flowing into the river. Pressing is being done continuously if storage room is available.

But these actions don’t always do enough to completely solve the problem, and options are sometimes limited, Kubesheski said.

“At times they aren’t enough to keep us from losing solids to the effluent,” she said, which is a term used to describe the outflowing material going into the river. “However, the amount lost is minor compared to the amount of solids retained in the plant during these times.”

Kubesheski explained the river is monitored for a year after a spill event and so far, no negative impact on the river has been seen.

“The flow from the plant is a small percentage of the overall river flow, and the solids we lose are treated, just not to our normal standard,” she said. “We monitor the river for impact for a full year after a spill event - we haven’t seen any negative impacts on the river.”

Kubesheski added that the water authority is pursuing options for plant expansion.

“The Macon Water Authority is actively pursuing options for plant expansion at this time to help prevent this from continuing to occur in the future,” she said.

Greenforest girls and boys have historic moment in Macon

It was a memorable week at the GHSA basketball state championships for three Class A basketball programs – Mount Vernon, St. Francis and Greenforest.But for one school, it was an historic ending.Greenforest became the 22nd program in the history of GHSA basketball to win on both the boys and girls side of the class when the Division II season ended Wednesday at the Macon Coliseum.Grayson, the 7A powerhouse, became the 23rd when both the boys and girls teams won championships Saturday.All told, Mount Vernon (...

It was a memorable week at the GHSA basketball state championships for three Class A basketball programs – Mount Vernon, St. Francis and Greenforest.

But for one school, it was an historic ending.

Greenforest became the 22nd program in the history of GHSA basketball to win on both the boys and girls side of the class when the Division II season ended Wednesday at the Macon Coliseum.

Grayson, the 7A powerhouse, became the 23rd when both the boys and girls teams won championships Saturday.

All told, Mount Vernon (Division I boys), St. Francis (Division I girls) and Greenforest (Division II boys and girls) finished with state championships.

The Greenforest boys were led by Elijah Lewis’s 18 points in a Class A Division II boys 68-39 championship victory against Manchester. Caleb Kawela added 11 points.

The Greenforest girls defeated Montgomery County 39-28 to win the Division II girls championship. Milica Lazarevic led with 11 points; Arek Manoon added 10.

Mount Vernon’s boys and Greenforest’s girls both won program-first state championships. The Greenforest boys previously won championships in 2013, 2016, 2017 and 2022. St. Francis’s girls enjoyed championship victories in 2013, 2015, 2016 and last season.

Mount Vernon upended Paideia 48-40 in the Class A Division I boys game after splitting regular-season games between the Region 6 rivals. Xavier Shegog led with 18 points and seven rebounds.

Nya Young’s 3-pointer late in the fourth quarter extended St. Francis’ lead to five points, allowing the Knights to defend last year’s title with a 74-71 victory against No. 2 Galloway. Giaunna Rogers scored 19 points, and Young finished with 13 points to lead St. Francis.

Here are the final rankings:

Class A Division I boys

1. Mount Vernon (23-9)

2. Paideia (17-13)

3. Savannah (23-9)

4. Darlington (24-7)

5. St. Francis (13-12)

6. East Laurens (22-5)

7. Mount Pisgah Christian (14-18)

8. Mount Bethel Christian (15-7)

9. Bleckley County (21-9)

10. Woodville-Tompkins (22-5)

Class A Division I girls

1. St. Francis (24-7)

2. Galloway (19-11)

3. Athens Christian (24-5)

4. Rabun County (24-7)

5. Swainsboro (19-7)

6. Lamar County (24-6)

7. Bryan County (26-4)

8. East Laurens (19-8)

9. Mount Pisgah Christian (16-11)

10. Oglethorpe County (23-3)

Class A Division II boys

1. Greenforest Christian (27-4)

2. Portal (28-2)

3. Manchester (19-9)

4. Calhoun County (25-6)

5. Macon County (27-4)

6. Warren County (24-6)

7. Christian Heritage (21-6)

8. Clinch County (18-6)

9. Mitchell County (23-6)

10. Early County (20-11)

Class A Division II girls

1. Greenforest (27-5)

2. Montgomery County (30-2)

3. Taylor County (27-4)

4. Clinch County (21-5)

5. Wilcox County (27-3)

6. Early County (22-7)

7. Seminole County (23-7)

8. Chattahoochee County (21-8)

9. Terrell County (19-8)

10. Christian Heritage (18-12)

Open government advocate still has concerns over revised open records bill passed by Kentucky House

A closely scrutinized open-records measure dealing with public access to the flow of electronic messages among government officials won passage in the Kentucky House on Tuesday.The bill's lead sponsor, Republican state Rep. John Hodgson, backed off the original version that had spurred a strong backlash from open-records advocates.Those advocates have warned that the revised version still contained loopholes that would hurt the public's ability to scrutinize government business.It would do so by limiting a public agency'...

A closely scrutinized open-records measure dealing with public access to the flow of electronic messages among government officials won passage in the Kentucky House on Tuesday.

The bill's lead sponsor, Republican state Rep. John Hodgson, backed off the original version that had spurred a strong backlash from open-records advocates.

Those advocates have warned that the revised version still contained loopholes that would hurt the public's ability to scrutinize government business.

It would do so by limiting a public agency's duty for producing electronic information, applying only to material stored on a device that's “agency property or on agency-designated email accounts,” open government advocate Amye Bensenhaver said in an email after the House vote.

The new version of House Bill 509 cleared the House on a 61-31 vote to advance to the Senate. Republicans have supermajorities in both chambers.

It would update provisions of Kentucky's open records law that were crafted long before the advent of emails, text messages and other forms of electronic communication, Hodgson said.

“This bill attempts to close a gap that has been created in the subsequent decades by requiring that the tens of thousands of people that work for public agencies, or serve as appointed board members in some capacity, have an agency-furnished or an agency-designated email provided for them, so that they can conduct their official business with those searchable electronic platforms,” Hodgson said.

Hodgson has said he is trying to balance the need for transparency with the need for personal privacy.

Public officials could be punished for using non-public email accounts for official business under the bill. But open-records advocates have said that is not enough because there is no guarantee that those records would be subject to the state’s open records law.

“Until this bill gained traction, the overwhelming weight of authority focused on the nature and content of a record, not on the place it is stored, to determine its status as a public record governed by the open records law,” said Bensenhaver, a former assistant attorney general who helped start the Kentucky Open Government Coalition.

“HB 509 passed out of the House with the goal of upending that analysis and reversing that authority,” she added.

This story was originally published March 12, 2024, 7:30 PM.

Three teaching tips from a top pre-K educator

The first few weeks in a classroom can help set the tone for the rest of the school year. Building a sense of safety and belonging for young students early on is critical, said Berol Dewdney, a pre-K teacher and Maryland's 2023 teacher of the year.Dewdney, who's been teaching pre-K for just over a decade now, said her mother Anna Dewdney, the late author and illustrator of the well-known "Llama Llama" children's books, helped spark her interest in early-childhood education. ...

The first few weeks in a classroom can help set the tone for the rest of the school year. Building a sense of safety and belonging for young students early on is critical, said Berol Dewdney, a pre-K teacher and Maryland's 2023 teacher of the year.

Dewdney, who's been teaching pre-K for just over a decade now, said her mother Anna Dewdney, the late author and illustrator of the well-known "Llama Llama" children's books, helped spark her interest in early-childhood education. The Hechinger Report spoke to her about how she creates a welcoming environment for students and about other strategies that help her during the first few weeks of the year.

Consistency helps children know what to expect each day, which also allows them to feel confident and safe in a familiar environment. An example of a classroom routine could be creating a morning ritual with students, like going over the rules at the start of class or giving students a job to do like greeting each other at the door each day, said Dewdney, who teaches at an elementary school in Baltimore.

"The brain is pattern-seeking and survival-oriented, so we create consistent routines at home and at school so that we can help our kids feel safe so they can effectively connect with others and effectively learn," Dewdney said. "Those routines, in addition to helping students feel safe and have a dependable sense of what's going on in their lives, also helps them build executive functions."

Every day, Dewdney tries to have meaningful interactions with her students, sometimes planning those exchanges in advance. One activity she likes is an "I love you ritual," a term coined by Conscious Discipline, a company that provides training on social and emotional learning. The rituals can be about anything, but they always have four components: presence, appropriate touch, eye contact, and a "playful spirit."

One of Dewdney's ideas of an "I love you ritual" with students is a nursery rhyme that involves fingerplay: "Round and round the garden goes the teddy bear, one step, two step, tickle you under there." During this rhyme, Dewdney draws a circle on students' hands before tickling them under the chin or arms.

The game helps build a healthy adult-to-child relationship and it also builds a structure kids can draw on to create similar healthy rituals and interactions with each other, Dewdney said. "Adult-child interactions we know to be one of the most important things in an early childhood classroom," Dewdney said. "Planning for those interactions and making time for those interactions is essential."

Staying calm when a student is misbehaving or when something stressful happens models how to respond to a conflict.

"If we're going to empower kids to be in charge of themselves and to self-regulate and to love and learn and lead effectively, we have to first do so as adults. And it can be really hard — in life, in a classroom, with XYZ going on in the world — to maintain your self-regulation and calm," Dewdney said. "One of the first things that a grown-up and educator can do is really practice the structures that make them feel calm and safe."

Dewdney uses breathing exercises in the classroom as one way to foster a sense of calm. She teaches her students the exercises to help them learn to self-regulate, but she also uses the activities for her own benefit.

All of these activities are ingredients for creating a safe and welcoming environment for young children, she said.

"It feels really obvious to say that it's important that a classroom is a loving space, [and that] it's important that you create a sense of belonging. But what does that actually look like in the classroom? And what are the things that you do as a grown-up to make that happen?" Dewdney said. "That's one of the most empowering things that I've experienced as an educator — that these tools help me feel a connection with kids and families and to really create the loving classrooms that we know our kids deserve."

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